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Improvements
- Zoom in function is now available for profile photos.
- You now have the ability to share profiles with your friends that you find interesting and think they would enjoy, too!
- Members without profile photos will no longer be able to view other members' photos on SDC.
- Coming soon…The ability to invite your friends to SDC with convenient links or a QR code to make life easier to connect them to SDC.
FAQ
Our FAQ page is designed not only to keep you informed of any updates we are doing; it will also help to answer questions you may have without the need to contact a staff member. We are adding new information all the time, also there is an alert box at the top for very quick updates regarding immediate changes to the website. So, if you have a question, take a quick look, as you may find the answer you are looking for.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to SUEOV for winning the Heels & Thongs Photo Contest. Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, & René Moon. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – My Bedtime Story – Photo Contest
Current – My First Lifestyle Club Experience – Writing Contest
Voting Underway – Ladies On Top – Video Contest
SDC Shop
Get your SDC Merch now! The SDC Merchandise comes in handy on holiday, during a festival or sexy event. Or simply purchase them as a must-have! From fans to tops, sarong and even swimwear.
An unforgettable event awaits: Greece 2025
From May 1 - 7, 2025 we will be descending down once again on the beautiful island of Crete, for an unforgettable event.
If you are looking for the perfect swingers escape, this is it! With an all-inclusive price you can just focus on enjoying yourselves with 350 like-minded others for 7 days, and 6 sultry nights! You can look forward to daily pool parties, PlayShops, International DJs, sexy entertainment and all the food and drink you could wish for!
Check the event here, then join us and book now!
Have you found your BNB yet?
We have had a very nice influx of new BNB hosts! If you are looking for a sexy weekend together, away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life, know that there are welcoming places and spaces where you can hang your hat for a little while. Why not enjoy the excitement of new cities, hookup with others for play while living like a local are the best memories to make. It doesn’t get any better than that anywhere else!
To find the BNBs on the site, select Businesses on the side menu, then filter for BNB and then choose your favorite kind! From dungeons to romantic spots, it’s all there!
If you have a room or space to rent and would like to promote your BNB on SDC, sign up as a BNB host. There are no commissions, and registration is FREE!
PARTNER CONTENT
The Sexiest BNBs to Book Now!
Are you planning a sexy private getaway, a weekend tryst, or a spontaneous escape? These lifestyle-friendly accommodations promise to ignite passion and leave you and your partner(s) with unforgettable memories!
Whether you’re seeking a secluded retreat, a dungeon equipped to fulfill your kinks, or even to charter a catamaran, each short-term rental below caters to your whims and offers a unique blend of luxury, intimacy, eroticism, and breathtaking surroundings.
Indulge your senses and experience new pleasures at these sexy BNBs!
PARTNER CONTENT
Swing Like An A-Team
Join Lauren Hayes, The Swinging Coach, for an in-person workshop in downtown Salt Lake City: Swing Like An A-Team! Swinging can be a great way to add excitement and intimacy to your relationship and, as we all know, it does add complication. Keeping our relationships in tip-top condition is priority number one. You will learn: - The components of the Gottman® Sound Relationship House model that create the healthiest of relationships, non-monogamous or not! This is a scientifically sound approach to understanding and strengthening relationships. - Healthy conflict management tools. - Relationship dynamics that tend to surface within non-monogamous relationships. - Something new about your partner.
This May 11th, attend this 2-hour interactive workshop for couples only, where you will learn a scientifically proven relationship model that will allow you to build or bolster your relationship for best performance. $295 / couple, $50 off for SDC members.
PARTNER CONTENT
FREE WEBINARS: Lexi Sylver’s Swinging 101 Series
Swinging 101 host Lexi Sylver is an accredited open lifestyle and relationship coach and educator, as well as the Media Director for SDC.com. She blends her knowledge about the open lifestyle with her own personal experiences to give you the advice and info you need for smooth, sexy swinging! As an SDC member, you get FREE access to all of Lexi’s Swinging 101 events! Check out this lineup of juicy Swinging 101 webinars: Swinger Relationship Dynamics Secrets of Sexy Body Language How to Deal with Jealousy WTF to Do When Swinging Goes Wrong Swinger Icebreakers Newbies in the Open Lifestyle Reserve your FREE tickets for any or all of Lexi’s events here!
April 10 @ 8 PM EDT
April 24 @ 8 PM EDT
May 8 @ 8 PM EDT
May 22 @ 8 PM EDT
June 5 @ 8 PM EDT
June 26 @ 8 PM EDT
***Only those who register for their free tickets on Lexi’s site can access the live webinar with Q&A, and the video replay.***
FEATURED BUSINESS
The Group
The Group brings select professional, educated couples and singles in the lifestyle together for private dinners, weekend events, and international trysts where the locations, food, accommodations, entertainment, and company are nothing short of extraordinary. By invitation only, The Group appeals to those in the lifestyle who demand quality over quantity and are seeking something well-beyond traditional house parties and nightclubs. Group members experience truly one-of-a-kind events where they can satisfy their indulgences for great food, fine wines, world-class accommodations, and – of course – like-minded people. Entrée to The Group starts by attending a Just For Dinner event where The Group’s founders get an opportunity to meet you personally while you get to experience just a taste of what it’s like to be a member of The Group.
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FEATURED EXPERT
Sex Positive Me: Meet The Lunas
Join Angelique and John Luna of “Sex Positive Me” as the dynamic duo explores all aspects of sex and relationships, ranging from fetishes and BDSM to ethical non-monogamy and LGBTQIA+ issues.
Sex Positive Me destigmatizes sexual practices and relationships while reconciling reality with myths & misconceptions.
Their goal is to educate, entertain and be advocates of sexual freedom. Their services include: podcasting, workshops, webinars, tantra, and sex & relationship coaching.
Learn more and check out Sex Positive Me’s podcasts and videos on SDC!
POPULAR
How to Swing Without Falling in Love
How do you have sex with someone and not form some sort of bond? How do you keep yourself from falling love?
It's an issue more swingers deal with and think about than you might imagine: How do you have sex with someone and not form some sort of bond? How do you keep yourself from falling love? Our experts at SDC have their own opinions on the matter, but we want to know what our valued readers and members think about this. Weigh in on this member's concerns, and let us know how you feel about the Lifestyle and falling in love....READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
Saturdays Easter Weekend for Couples & Females
Las Vegas, NV
Saturday, April 6th Couples/Females Only Join us every Friday and Saturday night at PlayhouseLV Ultra Lounge! We Host The Sexiest Most Exclusive Lifestyle Events in Las Vegas. This is Where the Sexy Play. We require ALL first-time guests to be registered and vetted by our board of members on our website (PlayhouseLV.com ). Everyone can apply but not all will be approved. Everyone must buy a ticket on our site to attend any event. Walk-ins will be turned away. Come Get Together With The Hottest Lifestyle Couples and Females In Las Vegas. All Our Guests Are Hand Picked, Just Like All Our Events!
SDC Daisy Dukes Party @ Miami Velvet
Miami, FL
Saturday, APRIL 6, 2024 Doors Open at 10:00pm Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES!
We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $125 at the door! MUST BE DRESSED IN THEME TO RECEIVE FREE MEMBERSHIP AND $15 DISCOUNT AT THE DOOR Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays
1001 Nuits @ We Club Paris
Paris, France
Saturday, 13 April Be a belle of the 1001 nights, Scheherazade or Sultane, come meet princes of the desert, savor oriental flavors! We celebrate the end of Ramadan and transport you to another universe to allow you to escape for an evening! Join us from 10:30 p.m. for a great and beautiful evening! Oriental appetizers and exotic fruits will be offered to you! And for the pleasure of your eyes, an oriental dancer, come and admire belly dancing or try it out.
Eyecandy Glow - Embassy Suites
Livonia, MI
April 12th & 13th This is one of our most popular events of the year! We are still working on the final schedule but you can expect:
• 238 All Suite Guest rooms with Separate Living room & Bedroom
• 10,000 sq ft Convention Space
• Two-day Event
• COMPLETE Hotel, Restaurant & Bar TAKEOVER
• Five Story Atrium transformed into a candy glow explosion!
• Friday Night Come on Barbie... Lets GO Party Karaoke Meet ‘n Greet
• INCREDIBLE Sound, Lighting and LED Main Events
• Whole hotel BYOB
• Topless Optional Pool Parties
• Classes & Demos
• DJ Errect, DJ BSmooth, DJ Eternal & DJ Darksyde Mixing on the Decks
• 24-Hour Access to the Indoor Pool
• Our FAMOUS Afterparty with Revive Snacks
• Large Group Themed Playrooms
• Expanded Impact Room in PRIVATE Hotel Location
• Vendor Showcase
• Complimentary Drinks Nightly
• Complimentary Hot Breakfast Buffet including Omelet Station
• Mimosa & Bloody Mary Brunch Bar
• Complimentary Wi-Fi and Parking
Fetish Factory presents BLASFFEMY at The Flamingo Room
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Saturday, April 13, 2024
10pm - 3am Celebrating 29 years in fetish, the original kink since 1995, we are proud to offer distinguished fetish parties where we offer an incredible clubbing and dungeon experience as well as privacy and safety for all our guests.
No outside photography is ever allowed, and we do NOT tolerate poor party conduct!
Our parties are completely pansexual with a wide demographic of attendees. We are also proud to host all our events in destination nightclubs off the beaten path to maintain the security and privacy of the attendees. Party with us to learn why since 1995, we are The Original Kink.
With our diverse crowd we finally have a club--The Flamingo Room in Ft. Lauderdale--that feeds all ears with no more concerns about ONE sound! Great for Glow outfits and accessories with lots of black lights. WHERE:
The Flamingo Room
4900 Powerline Road, Fort Lauderdale FL 33309 TABLE SERVICE & RESERVATIONS
Bottle menu here: https://fetishfactory.com/the-flamingo-room-bottle-list/
Club allows ratios of 4:1 bottle min. | 5-9: 2 bottle minimum, etc. DOOR TIMES:
10pm - 3am
TICKETS:
$25 In-Store
$30 Online
$35 @ Door ENTERTAINERS:
Carrie Cat of 9 Tails
Christa Knox
Kayla Bee
Lexus Wicked
Val Vampyre DJs:
(EDM Room - Techno, Tech House, Trance)
DJ Kieto
DJ Tumbles
(Alt Music Room - Industrial & Classic Alternative)
DJ Sideshow
DJ Ray Milian
We command the following attire:
Bondage Bishops - Pervy Priests - Cyber Erotica - Kinky Lingerie - Kinky Clergy - Latex - Vinyl - Nasty Nuns - Cyberpunk - Cyber Goth - Kinky Drag - Nu Goth NO JEANS, NO ALL BLACK STREETWEAR, NO SLACKERS -- NO EXCEPTIONS!
Summer Revolution at Oasis Estate Resort
Baytown, TX
Saturday, April 20th Kick off the Summer Season at the hottest resort in the U.S. There will be a buffet, open bar, and self guided tours of the entire estate. Register today and let’s get the party started.
SDC Masquerade Party @ Wicked Club
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, 04 May COUPLES & LADIES ONLY! Showgirls & Live Entertainment! Dress Code: Dress to the theme (optional) or LESS to Impress, Provocative and/or elegant. FIXED MENU DINNER AVAILABLE FROM 21:00
PLEASE WHATSAPP (0034) 697 935 224 TO RESERVE
Party from: 22:00 www.wickedclub.com