Swingers Lifestyle Community for Open-Minded Couples & Singles
Join the world’s largest international swinging lifestyle community! With our SDC Messenger and speed dating features, you'll meet and connect instantly with swingers near you, see who's going to swingers parties and clubs, and meet members traveling to your area. Get expert tips and media resources on the open lifestyle and relationships, and join groups based on your shared interests. Plus, discover our network of lifestyle-friendly businesses, BNBs, travel destinations, and more. SDC has everything you need to safely and discreetly navigate the lifestyle, while always prioritizing your privacy.
Something we know about members of SDC is that they love to travel. Our SDC Travel Calendar is the perfect tool to help you connect with new and exciting members when you are out of town!
To create a Travel Plan, just click Travel Calendar on the side menu. Click on + travel plan beside the filter icon. Fill out your travel plan information.
Use the quick link on your profile to see everyone else that will be there, too.
Note: Once you create your travel plan, members in the area will automatically be notified.
SDC Feature Updates
Here are the latest improvements over the last month:
You can now add text when forwarding a message to another member in the SDC messenger.
Private parties give you the option to announce your party to local members in the area and not just to your friends.
New popular group categories have been added on our Groups page; you can now filter by Hotwife, BBC, Cuckold, and BDSM/Fetish/Kink, to name a few.
Upload multiple pictures to your conversation when using the SDC messenger.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to UNICORNHUNTER81 for winning the Bedtime Bondage Photo Contest! & to MELINE2022 for winning the My First Big Cock Writing Contest!
Butt sex is one of the most egalitarian types of sex. We all have butts, so everyone can (hypothetically) enjoy anal pleasure!
The anus is rich in nerve endings and responds to light touch, so with the right partner(s) and preparation (and lubricant), anal sex can be an ecstatic experience for all involved.
From backdoor lubricants, butt plugs, strap-ons, and everything you need for anal hygiene, check out the toys in our shop to explore the pleasures of anal play!
NEW! Hotwifing 101: Complete Guide to Hotwife Relationships
What IS hotwifing, really? Is it a kink, relationship style, or both?!
How did hotwifing become such a growing trend in sex and relationships?
Whether you’re new to the open-minded lifestyle or an experienced swinger or kinkster, chances are you’ve heard the terms “hotwifing” and “hotwife” before — even if the first place you heard the term was when you were watching porn.
Before you dive headfirst into your hotwifing journey, our SDC team of sexperts has compiled the most frequently asked questions to your hottest questions.
It's our pleasure to announce that SDC is the official sponsor for the 2022 ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards!
We look forward to this exciting new step in our continued partnership with ASN as we grow our amazing lifestyle community together.
Nominations are open until April 30th, so check out the site and nominate your favorite frontrunners for categories like Best Entertainer, Best Social Media Influencer, Best Entertainment Venue / Club, and more.
Want to know the bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations?!
Lexi Sylver, SDC’s Media Director, had the pleasure of interviewing Anastasiia Chyruk, the current Caliente Club & Resorts C.O.O., about resort life, the open-minded lifestyle, and why the time to explore our desires is NOW!
Their company, Evolve Your Intimacy, provides licensed and board-certified guidance, counseling, workshops, retreats, seminars, and sex therapy from experts in the fields of sexology, mental health, and medical practice. Their podcast, Evolve Your Intimacy, has 1+ million listeners worldwide.
Stephanie and Fox’s mission is to help people overcome barriers that prevent them from having the relationship(s) they truly desire and deserve by educating, enlightening, and evolving their intimacy.
Sexually daring couples love to have the wilder kind of experience. With Spring in the air, this is a great time to fuel your curiosity and perhaps try something you haven’t tried before.
Our intimate travel events may just be what you are looking for!
Does indulging in naked sunbathing, enjoying a libido-enhancing playshop or two, dancing the night away in glam or skimpy themed outfits, and perhaps venturing into a sexy playroom or kinky dungeon together or with other couples and playing 'til the wee hours sound good to you?
Then these events below may be the right match for you:
FEATURED EXPERT: Meet Swingers Bella and Jase, Hosts of 4OURPLAY Podcast
Bella & Jase are hosts of the 4OURPLAY Podcast and creators of the 4OURPLAY Swingers Ice Breaker Games.
Join the journey, experiences, and sexual adventures of two high school sweethearts navigating through the Swinging Lifestyle as millennials! With over seven years of experience in the Lifestyle and still in their 20s, they share their stories in a fresh and transparent way, telling the best parts but not overlooking the embarrassing moments and bumps in the road, too!
Approaching the Lifestyle in an honest, positive, and fun way, Bella & Jase aim to help others learn about this alternative Lifestyle and create an open community joining like-minded couples and individuals!
This lucky hotwife got the birthday surprise from her husband that they still fantasize about to this day.
One of our SDC members submitted the following story to our “Hottest Hotwife Experience!” Erotic Writing Contest. Sign up today to submit your own amateur erotica.
She had a fantasy of getting around with a few guys since I’ve known her, and we talked about it often while we have sex. One day, on her birthday, I invited three single guys, kept them outside, and then blindfolded her. She had no idea what was going to happen, so I asked her, “are you ready for a surprise?” She said, “OK, let’s see the surprise!” ... READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
Kandi Vegas 2022
June 15th, 16th, 17th & 18th, 2022 Las Vegas, NV
SDC is proud to announce Kandi Vegas! The Ultimate Lifestyle Weekend! Don't miss it!
Join us for 3 days of Summer frolic with 350 sexy people! Incredible music, dancing, and sexy fun!
3 STEAMY SUMMER DAYS & 3 SIZZLING SUMMER NIGHTS - Check KANDIVEGAS profile for more details!
Kandi Hotel Announced! Incredible Room Rates of $49 Wed / Thurs - $119 Fri / Sat! - Book Here!
Checkmate Presents: Thursday Nights (After work party!)
Thursday, April 7th, 2022 Manhattan, NY
THURSDAY NIGHTS IS AT A REDUCED PRICE FOR MEMBERS AND NEW COUPLES!
A classy and stylish evening of adult fun, Sexy lingerie, sexy stilettos, sexy people. An evening of beautiful pre-approved lifestyle / sophisticated couples and single ladies. Come play, mingle, dance, watch, and be watched, soft or full play. Come unwind after a long day at work, come meet hot couples and beautiful single girls looking to play!
7pm to 1am SINGLE GIRLS FREE! ABSOLUTELY NO SINGLE MEN. (Must be 21 and Over)
CHECKMATE is a members-only private club. ALL GUESTS MUST BE REGISTERED AS MEMBERS. Visit our website www.CheckmateNYC.com for more info!
Couples Weekend Lifestyle Party @ Paradise Lakes Resort
Friday - Sunday, April 8 - 10, 2022 Lutz, FL
We’ve created a special sexy weekend just for couples to come play at Paradise! Friday 6pm through Sunday morning at 7am, couples rule the resort! Saturday, special Guest DJ Moe Green is back for a high-energy pool party from 1pm - 5pm, then again in Club Reveal from 8pm to 2am for our Bunnies and Boxers Party! So, bring your special someone and be ready to dance, play, and relax all weekend! No day passes for singles will be sold Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. Annual single members are not permitted from 6pm Friday through 7am Sunday. Annual couples members must come together for entry.
Daily Membership Fees: COUPLES - $95 - 9am to 2am / $50 - 6pm to 2am
Paradise Lakes Resort is an adult clothing-optional lifestyle resort featuring three playrooms, heated pools, and a hot tub to enjoy year-round. Enjoy your vacation getaway at our indoor and outdoor bars for a refreshing beverage, two restaurants, and an expansive pool deck for laying out. Our exclusive nightclub, Club Reveal, is open for dancing and mingling on weekend nights.
Hotel rooms are located just a few feet away from one of our many pools. www.ParadiseLakes.com
Club Giggity's Spring Break Booty Shorts Night @ The Korral
Saturday, April 9, 2022 Spring Grove, PA
Spring is in the air and it's time to celebrate the beauty... we mean BOOTY and the warmer weather!
What better way to do it than with Club Giggity & the sexy ladies of Wyld Social Club as we invade The Korral for a special Spring Break Booty Shorts Night!! That's right! DJ Giggity is teaming up with one of the hottest new groups in the game, Wyld Social Club, for a long-anticipated invasion of The Korral, one of PA's biggest on-premise clubs.
Sat April 5th is all about the sexy fun of Spring Break and the BOOTYful Spring season. Remember... ALL BUTTS MATTER, so the dress code for the night is Short Shorts! Pack up those winter clothes and break out the Tank Tops, Short Shorts, and sexy Sun Dresses to show off those beautiful booties!
DJ Giggity is in the mix all night and ready to blow the roof off the Korral with our Midnight TWERKOFF Twerk Contest! Ladies, it's time to shake what your mama gave ya and make 'em clap!
Images of Greek goddesses, warm Mediterranean breezes, and mythological virility fuel our imaginations and fill the air this night. Ladies in white and gentlemen in their black formal attires will contrast and complement the eroticism of food and frolicking. Get on the SDC Guest List Today!
If sophistication and Chic are two words that describe you and you are an attractive couple or single lady, do not hesitate to apply to join us in style at one of our black-tie soirees for an upscale soiree full of corruption, debauchery, depravity, self-indulgence & pure excess...
Our parties are held at The Vanilla Alternative with its multi-million-pound luxurious features, decor and licenced bar making it the perfect venue. In my opinion, swinging is a way of life and should be lived with style, chic, and sophistication, and guests come from all walks of life: bankers, lawyers, doctors, models, and hot working-class couples!
Expect a beautiful crowd of gorgeous boys and girls all wanting to explore their naughty side — both as voyeurs and participators. Anything and everything is possible when everyone is in the mood for playful sex and seduction. Discretion is guaranteed — The atmosphere is feminine and non-threatening — perfect for your first time — or refined enough if you are one of the swinging sexual elite of UK.
I GUARANTEE the SEXIEST and sophisticated guests and the MOST ACTION you will find ANYWHERE in Britain!!! Our beautiful hosts will be at the front of the house to meet and greet you!
To apply for a place — Chic Events are 100% screened with a ridiculously hot guest list! We do not accept just anyone and refusal often offends.
Aged range 21-45
Well Groomed
In good shape
Profiles not hidden
Profile pictures available (none face)
No baggy Clothes at the event
Modern Tie is requested
No Tuxedos needed
No trainers / baseball caps
Previous No shows please pm me
Verified profiles only — verification is free!
Several Face and body pictures must be provided to be approved!
If you do not meet dress code requirements, you will not be allowed entry!
ACCEPTANCE is not guaranteed and will REFUSE if we do not feel you meet our criteria.
It’s finally here… the night everyone has been waiting for!!
Play Champagne Columbus will be opening our doors to welcome back all our members at 8pm SHARP! Platinum Members can enter the club at 7:30pm via the VIP line. Please plan to arrive prior to 10pm as we have a video presentation we will be sharing with everyone. Our doors will close promptly at Midnight for any new entries. The club will be open until 4 am for this very special event.
We will be serving trays of hors d'oeuvres and champagne throughout the evening. Come meet the 2022 Champagne Booty Shakers and SEXY new staff!
Tickets will be limited to 350 for this event. Pre-paying for your event on our website is HIGHLY recommended as tickets are unlikely to be available at the door for our events.
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