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How to Admit You Want to Swing to Your Partner

a photo of a happy couple looking each other on the bed of hotel and talking about swinging
a photo of a happy couple looking each other on the bed of hotel and talking about swinging
You want to do "WHAT?!" How do you start the conversation?

We discuss the big shock that can come with having the first conversation about swinging with your partner. We’ll dive into ways to bring up the topic and the importance of good communication to ensure that this discussion positively impacts your relationship. A good foundation of communication, a healthy sex life, and a desire to spice things up is necessary. We’ll also explore various ways to initiate the conversation, such as using porn, hints, turn-ons / kinks, or even podcasts.

 

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How to Have "THE" Conversation

Having "the" conversation will test the strength of your relationship, challenge personal fears and insecurities, and require mental and emotional fortitude. It’s important to be empathetic, and reassuring, and to listen to your partner’s response, whether it’s a yes or a no. Ultimately, this conversation will be the start of many conversations and hopefully lead to a deeper understanding between you and your partner. If you’re not ready to start this conversation, how will you have harder conversations in the future?

  1. How do you have the FIRST Conversation?
  2. I’m afraid to SAY what I’m Thinking
  3. What’s your “In”?
  4. Communicate, Communicate, Communicate
  5. Testing the Relationship
  6. Listening Skills are CRITICAL!
  7. Being Okay with “No”
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Apr 25, 2023
Very enlightening and detailed account of how so many of these conversations could go! We get asked these same questions all the time and will send folks to this article! Swinger University is the BEST!
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