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Glamorous Couple Posing SDC Valentine's Spotlight 2025
Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.

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Embracing Your Sexuality While Everyone is Watching!
Hosts Jason and Stephanie Class introduce themselves, emphasizing the importance of embracing their awkwardness and being genuine in their content.

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Talking to Your Partner About Trying Something New
Jason and Stephanie discuss their experiences and challenges in exploring new sexual experiences as a couple, from using sex toys to going to a swingers club.


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The Truth About Queefs and VARTs
A VART, or vaginal flatulence, occurs when air is expelled from the vagina, often during activities like sex or yoga.

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The Secret to Successful Non-Monogamy: Staying Connected
Swinging offers freedom and excitement, but if coupled, your connection with your spouse remains the foundation of it all.

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From Vanilla to Spice: Introducing Swinging to a Partner
Introducing the idea of swinging to your partner requires good communication, patience, and sensitivity.


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How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!

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5 Ways to Avoid Being That Couple at a Lifestyle Event
Want to have spectacular fun at lifestyle events? Here are five fun but essential tips to avoid being that couple and ensure your night is unforgettable — for the right reasons!

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Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto
This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.


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Camille Left Nursing to Work at a Brothel & Couldn't be Happier
Camille left nursing to work at Sheri's Ranch in Nevada, and she called in to talk all about it.

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Book of Broken Friendships
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss friendship, ENM, stress, conflict, and soda shops.

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The First Look at The First Book of Taylor
Lauren, a swinger, and Ben, who is polyamorous, set the stage by introducing themselves and sharing their frustrations with how the media often misrepresents their communities.


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Saints & Sinners — The Big Divide
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 3 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Seeking Pleasure Can Get Out of Hand
Lauren and Ben discuss the complexities of episode two of the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Garments, Drama, and Oh Boy, the Truth Box!
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 4 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and share their personal updates before diving into THE key event, the “sh*t show” of the birthday celebration weekend.


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Reclaiming the Term “Swinger”
Over the years, certain words have carried negative connotations, creating stigmas that linger long after their initial usage. For those of us in the ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community, one of those words is swinger.

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How Do I MAKE My Partner Join the Lifestyle?
This is a very common question appearing on forums and social media. It cannot be answered, but a clear response is needed.

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Hottest Swingers Clubs: World Edition
Discover the most seductive swinger lifestyle clubs around the globe and the sexy secrets within.


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Unlocking Sacred Sexuality: Empowering Women in the Lifestyle
Jason explores the intricate world of sacred sexuality and tantric integration with his special guest, Sol from Sol Lifestyle.

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Swinging During Perimenopause & Menopause
The article discusses how perimenopause and menopause can impact the swinging lifestyle for women.

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Unraveling the Psychology of the Swinging Lifestyle
Dr. Stephanie Sigler explores the psychological threads that make the swinging lifestyle not just a sexual choice but a nuanced interpersonal dynamic.


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Mastering Conversations in the Lifestyle
In today's episode, Jason delves into the art of conversation, exploring what makes a good conversation and how it differs in lifestyle compared to the vanilla world.

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Finding Balance in the Lifestyle: Conquering FOMO
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the art of balancing your vanilla life with the lifestyle, and how to tackle the dreaded FOMO (fear of missing out).

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Cultivating Compersion in the Lifestyle
Host Jason delves into the world of ethical non-monogamy, discussing the essence of compersion — a unique form of happiness derived from witnessing another's joy.