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Reclaiming the Term “Swinger”
Over the years, certain words have carried negative connotations, creating stigmas that linger long after their initial usage. For those of us in the ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community, one of those words is swinger.

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How Do I MAKE My Partner Join the Lifestyle?
This is a very common question appearing on forums and social media. It cannot be answered, but a clear response is needed.

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Hottest Swingers Clubs: World Edition
Discover the most seductive swinger lifestyle clubs around the globe and the sexy secrets within.


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Prioritizing Your Mental Health in Your Coming Out Journey
Coming out can feel daunting and overwhelming, especially if you are a little later in life.

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Swinging During Perimenopause & Menopause
The article discusses how perimenopause and menopause can impact the swinging lifestyle for women.

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Unraveling the Psychology of the Swinging Lifestyle
Dr. Stephanie Sigler explores the psychological threads that make the swinging lifestyle not just a sexual choice but a nuanced interpersonal dynamic.


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Finding Balance in the Lifestyle: Conquering FOMO
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the art of balancing your vanilla life with the lifestyle, and how to tackle the dreaded FOMO (fear of missing out).

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Cultivating Compersion in the Lifestyle
Host Jason delves into the world of ethical non-monogamy, discussing the essence of compersion — a unique form of happiness derived from witnessing another's joy.

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Mastering Conversations in the Lifestyle
In today's episode, Jason delves into the art of conversation, exploring what makes a good conversation and how it differs in lifestyle compared to the vanilla world.


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Confronting Fear in the Lifestyle
This week, Jason discusses the raw and often unspoken fears that many face within the lifestyle community.

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Empowerment in the Lifestyle: Dancing in the Rain
Jason shares his experience from a recent hotel takeover event that was more than just a party — it was a celebration of life, freedom, and the empowerment that the lifestyle offers.

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Unlocking the Secrets to a Better You: Lifestyle Wellness Tips
Jason discusses lifestyle health and wellness with special guest Matt Shannon from HealthFitMD.


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Summer Event Spotlight: World Edition
Make your summer red-hot with these sizzling swinger lifestyle events across the globe.

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The Intricacies of Being a Therapist and a Sex Worker
Raquel Savage is a board-certified sex therapist and is also a sex worker who teaches other therapists how to serve sex workers in their practice.

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Jim on Cucks, Hotwives, and What They Look for in a Bull
Jim called in to talk all about cucks, hotwives, and what they look for in a bull.


Sexy Soccer Mom Hotwifes for her Husband Sexy Soccer Daddy
Listen to the story of how this couple discovered Hotwifing and how they live the lifestyle.

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Fetish Friday: Jay and Julie's Femdom Relationship
Jay and Julie are in a female-led relationship, and they BOTH called in to talk all about it.

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Fetish Friday: Robert is Hooking Up with a Married Male Dom
Robert is hooking up with a married male Dom, and he called in to talk all about it.


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Scott is a Cuck Who Lost His Hotwife to a Bull
Scott is a true cuck who lost his hotwife to a bull, and he called in to talk all about it.

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Hailey is a Hotwife
Hailey is a hotwife, and she called in to talk all about it.

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Trans Man Elijah's had Threesomes & More & Now Feels Asexual?!
Elijah is a trans man who's had threesomes and moresomes and now considers himself asexual, and he called in to talk all about it.


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Sadie is a Hotwife
Sadie is a hotwife, and both she and her husband call in to talk all about it.

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GIRL TALK: Brandi on Threesomes, Her Sugar Daddy, and More
Brandi called in to talk all about being a unicorn, her ex-baby-daddy drama, and more.

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Bunny's in a Poly Throuple with her Cuck Boyfriend & Husband
Bunny is in a poly throuple with a cuck and another guy, and she called in to talk all about it.