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Queen of Spades: Unpacking the Fetishization of Black Men
Understanding the Queen of Spades Symbol in the Swinger Community: A Complex Intersection of Desire and Stereotypes

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Embracing Nerves & Excitement Before a Same-Sex Play Session
Starting a new experience can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking, especially when it involves a same-sex play session.

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Hotwifing and Swinging: Are They the Same Thing?
Do Hotwifing and Swinging overlap? Let's talk about it.


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Summer Event Spotlight: World Edition
Make your summer red-hot with these sizzling swinger lifestyle events across the globe.

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Allie is a Hotwife and Swings with her Stag Fiancé
Allie and her fiancé are in a hotwife/stag relationship, and they’re now swinging, too, and she called in to talk all about it.

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Naughty Confessions: Cuckqueans, Cheating, Hotwifing, & More
Tune in to hear a whole bunch of naughty confessions, and then listen to what I think about them.


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The Business of Natural Sexual Enhancement with King Heff
There can be many opportunities to enter into the 'business of sex' without it being sex work or porn, even though both are legitimate businesses supporting billion-dollar industries.

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Scott is a Cuck Who Lost His Hotwife to a Bull
Scott is a true cuck who lost his hotwife to a bull, and he called in to talk all about it.

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Hailey is a Hotwife
Hailey is a hotwife, and she called in to talk all about it.


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Raven Cuckolds her Husband & is Now in Love with Someone Else
Raven is a dominatrix who is married to a cuck, and now she’s in love with one of her clients, and she called in to talk all about it.

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Hotwife Ember Rae Now Monogamous to Her New, Well-Hung Bull
Tune in to hear all the details about Ember Rae's hotwifing story.

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GIRL TALK: Brandi on Threesomes, Her Sugar Daddy, and More
Brandi called in to talk all about being a unicorn, her ex-baby-daddy drama, and more.


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Camille has a Husband, a Boyfriend, & a New Female Sex Buddy
Camille is in an open marriage with her husband and has a boyfriend and a new female sex buddy on the side. What went down to turn her traditional marriage into an open one?

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Elizabeth Tapes Herself with Guys for Much Older Boyfriend
Elizabeth records herself hooking up with other guys for her much older boyfriend, and she called in to talk all about it.

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Fetish Friday: Robert is Hooking Up with a Married Male Dom
Robert is hooking up with a married male Dom, and he called in to talk all about it.


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Bi Couple Has a Threesome and a Foursome
Seth and his girlfriend are both bi and have had a threesome and foursome recently, and he called in to talk all about it.

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Jim on Cucks, Hotwives, and What They Look for in a Bull
Jim called in to talk all about cucks, hotwives, and what they look for in a bull.

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Sadie is a Hotwife
Sadie is a hotwife, and both she and her husband call in to talk all about it.


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Cuck Mateo Got his Conservative Wife into Hotwifing
Mateo is a young cuck who got his conservative wife into hotwifing, and he called in to talk all about it.

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How God Wants Us to Put Pleasure Over Performance
Dr. Jeannelle and Taylor Sparks discuss how great sexual pleasure and religion can exist in your heart and between your legs at the same time.

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The Evolution of Miami Velvet: From Club to Lifestyle Empire
Explore Miami Velvet's bold plans to elevate its lifestyle nightclub with sophistication, kink, and luxurious amenities.


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Are We Ready for Hotwifing? Taking the SDC Quiz!
Friends with Pineapples take our hotwifing quiz here on SDC and share their answers and results.

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E. Michelle Certifies Pleasure to Future Pleasure Coaches
Loving what you do and being good at what you do are two entirely different things. Fortunately for clients and future intimate coaches and sex educators, E. Michelle has perfected both.