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Ethical Non-Monogamy vs. Consensual Non-Monogamy
If you've been exploring open relationships, polyamory, or alternative relationship structures, you've likely come across the terms Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM).

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What Regular Therapists Don’t Get About Ethical Non-Monogamy
Many relationship therapists are trained in monogamy-based frameworks — which means when non-monogamous clients seek support, they often get advice that does more harm than good.

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Love, Drama, and Boundaries on Couple to Throuple
If you’ve ever wondered what happens when The Bachelor meets ethical non-monogamy (ENM), here it is.


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How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!

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Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto
This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.

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Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen Relationship
Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen relationship, and they both called in to talk all about it.


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Queen of Spades: Unpacking the Fetishization of Black Men
Understanding the Queen of Spades Symbol in the Swinger Community: A Complex Intersection of Desire and Stereotypes

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Unlocking Sacred Sexuality: Empowering Women in the Lifestyle
Jason explores the intricate world of sacred sexuality and tantric integration with his special guest, Sol from Sol Lifestyle.

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Hotwifing and Swinging: Are They the Same Thing?
Do Hotwifing and Swinging overlap? Let's talk about it.


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Summer Event Spotlight: World Edition
Make your summer red-hot with these sizzling swinger lifestyle events across the globe.

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Camille has a Husband, a Boyfriend, & a New Female Sex Buddy
Camille is in an open marriage with her husband and has a boyfriend and a new female sex buddy on the side. What went down to turn her traditional marriage into an open one?

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GIRL TALK: Brandi on Threesomes, Her Sugar Daddy, and More
Brandi called in to talk all about being a unicorn, her ex-baby-daddy drama, and more.


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Hotwife Ember Rae Now Monogamous to Her New, Well-Hung Bull
Tune in to hear all the details about Ember Rae's hotwifing story.

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Cuck Mateo Got his Conservative Wife into Hotwifing
Mateo is a young cuck who got his conservative wife into hotwifing, and he called in to talk all about it.

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The Business of Natural Sexual Enhancement with King Heff
There can be many opportunities to enter into the 'business of sex' without it being sex work or porn, even though both are legitimate businesses supporting billion-dollar industries.


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Fetish Friday: Robert is Hooking Up with a Married Male Dom
Robert is hooking up with a married male Dom, and he called in to talk all about it.

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Hailey is a Hotwife
Hailey is a hotwife, and she called in to talk all about it.

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Raven Cuckolds her Husband & is Now in Love with Someone Else
Raven is a dominatrix who is married to a cuck, and now she’s in love with one of her clients, and she called in to talk all about it.


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Jim on Cucks, Hotwives, and What They Look for in a Bull
Jim called in to talk all about cucks, hotwives, and what they look for in a bull.

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Scott is a Cuck Who Lost His Hotwife to a Bull
Scott is a true cuck who lost his hotwife to a bull, and he called in to talk all about it.

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Allie is a Hotwife and Swings with her Stag Fiancé
Allie and her fiancé are in a hotwife/stag relationship, and they’re now swinging, too, and she called in to talk all about it.


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Bi Couple Has a Threesome and a Foursome
Seth and his girlfriend are both bi and have had a threesome and foursome recently, and he called in to talk all about it.

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Elizabeth Tapes Herself with Guys for Much Older Boyfriend
Elizabeth records herself hooking up with other guys for her much older boyfriend, and she called in to talk all about it.

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Naughty Confessions: Cuckqueans, Cheating, Hotwifing, & More
Tune in to hear a whole bunch of naughty confessions, and then listen to what I think about them.