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LGBTQIA+

The LGBTQIA+ umbrella includes lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, asexual, and more. Learn more about the rainbow of sexuality and gender identity in the world and the diversity within the swinging and open lifestyles.
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Reclaiming the Term “Swinger”
Over the years, certain words have carried negative connotations, creating stigmas that linger long after their initial usage. For those of us in the ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community, one of those words is swinger.

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Prioritizing Your Mental Health in Your Coming Out Journey
Coming out can feel daunting and overwhelming, especially if you are a little later in life.

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Embracing Nerves & Excitement Before a Same-Sex Play Session
Starting a new experience can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking, especially when it involves a same-sex play session.


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The Evolution of Miami Velvet: From Club to Lifestyle Empire
Explore Miami Velvet's bold plans to elevate its lifestyle nightclub with sophistication, kink, and luxurious amenities.

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VoyeurX: Where Fetish Meets Fashion
Who is the kinky mind behind the luxuriously refined VoyeurX brand and hand-crafted fashions? Learn more in this exclusive interview!


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Her Guilty Confessions: An Interview with René Moon
Lexi talks all things fantasy with René Moon in this exclusive interview.

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Surviving a Breakup in the Lifestyle
Here are some tips to heal from a breakup for yourself and your partner.

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30 Best Sex Toys for Adults to Spice Up Your Sex Life
Whether you’re craving spicier solo play or more orgasmic partnered sex, here are the best sex toys to check out in your favorite sex shops.


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R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Lauren explains why respect is one of her favorite aspects of the lifestyle.

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Don't Fire the Secretary: Stress and Emotional Sovereignty
It is difficult to see our partners in emotional distress, especially if we feel our actions have caused or contributed to it. The knee-jerk reaction to fix the problem by removing the stressor is not necessarily always the healthiest answer. Surprising? Read on...

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The Perils of Personal Silicone Lubricant: Why Health Matters
In the realm of intimate products, silicone-based lubricants have gained popularity due to their smooth texture and long-lasting capabilities. However, beneath the allure of convenience lies a concerning truth: personal silicone lubricants may not be the healthiest option for intimate use.


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Relationship Enhancement with The Power of Shared Reading
Couples can strengthen their connection by reading together. Here's how and why it works.

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Running Towards a Cliff
In Rio de Janeiro, she decided to go hang gliding. Running towards a cliff's edge proved difficult. There have been times in the lifestyle when she thinks the same dynamic is at play.

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To Tell or Not to Tell
The dilemma (for many) around telling vanilla friends and family about the lifestyle