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Q&A: She Wants to be Choked & Spanked. Can I Really Do That?
BDSM is not meant to be damaging. If there's consent, you can rest assured that you're not hurting your partner.
Especially in long-term relationships, it can be challenging to rid yourself of the mental block that's getting in the way of treating your BDSM-desiring partner to the activities they'd like you to perform on them. Charlie and Arienne share some tips on how to overcome this hurdle in this Q&A edition of SexBecause.
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From the safety socks and energy drinks to snow machines and wack a sub, we heard the stories you won’t hear on the conference floor — so many, in fact, that this is a two-part episode!
Kayteezee explains why you should look for the dominant who is curious and wants to know your needs as a sub, for if you find someone who already has all of the answers, you may find yourself a square peg being forced into a round hole.
We had a ton of laughs and learned a lot talking with sex therapist Ruby B. Johnson about non-hierarchical polyamory, eroticised racism, BDSM and more.
