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Hotwifing 101: Hotwives, Bulls, and the Hotwife Lifestyle

What is hotwifing, and why is it such a popular topic? Who can be a hotwife? Is hotwifing and wife swapping the same thing? How is hotwifing different from cuckolding?

Our experts have created hotwife articles, podcasts, videos, resources, and more to answer your questions. Discover more about how to be a hotwife, take our quiz to find out if you and your partner are ready for hotwifing, and get tips on how to make hotwifing even sexier. Plus, meet a hotwife near you! Check them out below!

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Hotwifing 101: Complete Guide to Hotwife Relationships

What is hotwifing? What’s it like to be a hotwife? Discover how to be a hotwife, what hotwifing is really all about, and more about this growing trend in sex and relationships. Read our Complete Guide to Hotwife Relationships here.

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All About Hotwifing

Whether you’re a new or experienced hotwife or hotwifing couple, we’ll guide your exciting journey into the hotwifing lifestyle with hotwife articles, videos, and podcasts. Get expert tips on how to talk to your partner about hotwifing, what you need to know before entering a hotwife relationship, and much more…

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  Lexi Sylver
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  Dr. Laurie Betito
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Lifestyle Interview: Hedonism II Resort with Tatiana
  TheSwingNation
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Sexiest Cities

Where do hotwives and open-minded people love to party and hook up? Check out the sexiest cities where hotwives can run wild, from popular hotspots like Las Vegas, South Florida, Amsterdam and many more. We feature the hottest hotwives and fetish clubs, erotic parties, sex shops, bars, restaurants, festivals and more! You’ll also find exclusive SDC member benefits at our partnering clubs and businesses. Find the perfect places to travel and explore all your deepest desires and fantasies.
Atlanta, Georgia

Find all of the swinging lifestyle information in the Atlanta area.
If rooftop bars, breweries, nightclubs, and speakeasies are your thing, Atlanta is a great choice destination for swingers! Georgia is the Peach State, which is a highly erotic fruit, and yes, there is lots to find to inspire you to get your sexy on! It helps that it’s easy to get to from literally anywhere in the world. The swingers' community and lifestyle scene in Atlanta is a happy one and very much alive. Atlanta is a great lifestyle destination, and you can plan to stop over to explore the area on your way to other destinations as well.

Find all of the swinging lifestyle information in the Atlanta area.If rooftop bars, breweries, nightclubs, and speakeasies are your thing, Atlanta is a great choice destination for swingers! Georgia is the Peach State, which is a highly erotic fruit, and yes, there is lots to find to inspire you to get your sexy on! It helps that it’s easy to get to from literally anywhere in the world. The swingers' community and lifestyle scene in Atlanta is a happy one and very much alive. Atlanta is a great lifestyle destination, and you can plan to stop over to explore the area on your way to other destinations as well.
California

The erotic pulse of the State of California is palpable. Los Angeles, San Francisco, and San Diego are most certainly sublime places for sexy players of the like-minded kind looking to unlock their fantasies. With a line-up of naughty soirees for the bi-curious, erotic daters, swingers, kinksters, dungeon seekers, and/or the otherwise hedonistically inclined, the many mansions, clubs, and parties all around the towns are an awesome way to test the waters and/or rock the boat for novices and well-versed players alike.

The erotic pulse of the State of California is palpable. Los Angeles, San Francisco, and San Diego are most certainly sublime places for sexy players of the like-minded kind looking to unlock their fantasies. With a line-up of naughty soirees for the bi-curious, erotic daters, swingers, kinksters, dungeon seekers, and/or the otherwise hedonistically inclined, the many mansions, clubs, and parties all around the towns are an awesome way to test the waters and/or rock the boat for novices and well-versed players alike.
Chicago

Find all lifestyle information and more about swingers in the Chicago area.

Chicago may be known internationally as “The Windy City,” but swingers know it as a city of exciting nightlife and sexy fun. By day, visitors can explore art galleries, wellness retreats, and world-class restaurants and shop along the famous Magnificent Mile — but swingers come out to party in speakeasy style when the sun goes down over the lakeshore! BDSM enthusiasts, non-monogamous couples, and adventurous singles will all find something to satisfy their desires in the lively, sexy city of Chicago.

Find all lifestyle information and more about swingers in the Chicago area. Chicago may be known internationally as “The Windy City,” but swingers know it as a city of exciting nightlife and sexy fun. By day, visitors can explore art galleries, wellness retreats, and world-class restaurants and shop along the famous Magnificent Mile — but swingers come out to party in speakeasy style when the sun goes down over the lakeshore! BDSM enthusiasts, non-monogamous couples, and adventurous singles will all find something to satisfy their desires in the lively, sexy city of Chicago.
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