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Within the erotic world of sexual exploration, you can enjoy everything from "vanilla" sex to indulging in kinky escapades. Learn more about the wide range of sex practices and techniques you can enjoy.
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SDC.com Partners with Bliss Cruise
SDC.com, the world’s largest international community for open-minded couples and singles, has just announced their partnership with Bliss Cruise, the premier leader in lifestyle cruising.

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Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.

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Avoiding Sticky Situations: Money Shots in Swinging
In the swinging lifestyle, clear communication is key, even about the ‘money shot.’ Don’t assume where to finish! This guide dives into boundaries, consent, and keeping the energy fun and respectful during play.


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Relationship Signals That Show You’re Losing Your Vanilla
Ready to leave the vanilla behind? These signs may indicate you’re ready to at least throw in some spice.

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Myth-Busting Squirting: The Science of Female Pleasure
Squirting is one of the most debated and misunderstood aspects of female pleasure. But here’s the truth: it’s real, it’s natural, and for many, it can be an incredibly satisfying experience.

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Is Swinging Right for You? 9 Questions to Ask Yourself
Curious about the swinging lifestyle? Explore nine essential questions to determine if swinging is the right path for you and your relationship.


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Stay Together, Play Together: Examining ‘Swapless’ Swinging
Think of swapless swinging as going to the party, dancing in the spotlight, but staying arm in arm with your favorite partner-in-crime. It’s the thrill of connection, the electric vibe of sensual adventure, all while keeping the fun between just the two of you.

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Are We "Swingers" or are We in "The Lifestyle?"
These terms are often used interchangeably. Do they mean the same thing? Is one better than the other?

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The Truth About Queefs and VARTs
A VART, or vaginal flatulence, occurs when air is expelled from the vagina, often during activities like sex or yoga.


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The Secret to Successful Non-Monogamy: Staying Connected
Swinging offers freedom and excitement, but if coupled, your connection with your spouse remains the foundation of it all.

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From Vanilla to Spice: Introducing Swinging to a Partner
Introducing the idea of swinging to your partner requires good communication, patience, and sensitivity.

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How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!


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5 Ways to Avoid Being That Couple at a Lifestyle Event
Want to have spectacular fun at lifestyle events? Here are five fun but essential tips to avoid being that couple and ensure your night is unforgettable — for the right reasons!

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Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto
This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.

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Reclaiming the Term “Swinger”
Over the years, certain words have carried negative connotations, creating stigmas that linger long after their initial usage. For those of us in the ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community, one of those words is swinger.