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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.
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Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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How Do I MAKE My Partner Join the Lifestyle?
This is a very common question appearing on forums and social media. It cannot be answered, but a clear response is needed.

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Hottest Swingers Clubs: World Edition
Discover the most seductive swinger lifestyle clubs around the globe and the sexy secrets within.


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Unraveling the Psychology of the Swinging Lifestyle
Dr. Stephanie Sigler explores the psychological threads that make the swinging lifestyle not just a sexual choice but a nuanced interpersonal dynamic.

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Naturally Improve His Sexual Health & Wellness
How can men use sex toys to improve their sexual health and wellness?

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Embracing Nerves & Excitement Before a Same-Sex Play Session
Starting a new experience can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking, especially when it involves a same-sex play session.


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Cultivating Compersion in the Lifestyle
Host Jason delves into the world of ethical non-monogamy, discussing the essence of compersion — a unique form of happiness derived from witnessing another's joy.

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Confronting Fear in the Lifestyle
This week, Jason discusses the raw and often unspoken fears that many face within the lifestyle community.

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Finding Balance in the Lifestyle: Conquering FOMO
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the art of balancing your vanilla life with the lifestyle, and how to tackle the dreaded FOMO (fear of missing out).


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Mastering Conversations in the Lifestyle
In today's episode, Jason delves into the art of conversation, exploring what makes a good conversation and how it differs in lifestyle compared to the vanilla world.

The Truth About Key Parties: Myth, History, and Consent
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the myth and history of key parties, exploring why they are problematic in the modern lifestyle, especially concerning consent.

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Orgy Etiquette: Navigating Group Activities in the Lifestyle
This episode is all about orgies — covering protocols, etiquette, and how to find them.


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How to Navigate Lifestyle House Parties: Tips and Etiquette
Drawing from his extensive experience in hosting and attending such parties, Jason offers invaluable advice on how to successfully navigate lifestyle house parties.

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Embrace the Fun: Outfits & Confidence in the Lifestyle
In this unscripted episode, Jason dives into the importance of outfits in the lifestyle and how they can help boost your confidence, especially if you feel socially awkward at parties and events.

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Unlocking the Secrets to a Better You: Lifestyle Wellness Tips
Jason discusses lifestyle health and wellness with special guest Matt Shannon from HealthFitMD.


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Hotwifing and Swinging: Are They the Same Thing?
Do Hotwifing and Swinging overlap? Let's talk about it.

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Summer Event Spotlight: World Edition
Make your summer red-hot with these sizzling swinger lifestyle events across the globe.

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Scott is a Cuck Who Lost His Hotwife to a Bull
Scott is a true cuck who lost his hotwife to a bull, and he called in to talk all about it.


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Franco & His Wife Have Threesomes, Foursomes, & Moresomes
Franco and his wife have threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes, and he called in to talk all about it.

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Cuck Mateo Got his Conservative Wife into Hotwifing
Mateo is a young cuck who got his conservative wife into hotwifing, and he called in to talk all about it.

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Sadie is a Hotwife
Sadie is a hotwife, and both she and her husband call in to talk all about it.


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Sunny is into Hotwifing, Swinging, Orgies, and More
Sunny and her husband are into hotwifing, swinging, orgies, and more, and she called in to talk all about it.

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John & Wife's Doomed Threesome with His Best Friend’s Wife
John had a threesome with his wife and his best friend’s wife, and it went very wrong. He called in to talk all about it.

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Girl Talk with Layla: Vulvas, Gangbangs, Gloryholes, & More
Layla calls in to talk all about beef curtains, faking orgasms, gangbangs, gloryholes, and a whole lot more.