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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.
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The Truth About Queefs and VARTs
A VART, or vaginal flatulence, occurs when air is expelled from the vagina, often during activities like sex or yoga.

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From Vanilla to Spice: Introducing Swinging to a Partner
Introducing the idea of swinging to your partner requires good communication, patience, and sensitivity.

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How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!


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5 Ways to Avoid Being That Couple at a Lifestyle Event
Want to have spectacular fun at lifestyle events? Here are five fun but essential tips to avoid being that couple and ensure your night is unforgettable — for the right reasons!

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Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto
This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.


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Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen Relationship
Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen relationship, and they both called in to talk all about it.

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We’re Officially Swingers
Listen in as Chloe and Mike talk about their first full swap!

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Did We Just Become Best Friends?!
In this episode, Mike and Chloe reflect on the unforgettable connections and lasting friendships that have made our lifestyle journey truly special.


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Our First Swingers Club!
Chloe and Mike launch their podcast with their newbies' story — from sharing fantasies to their first club experience

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It’s Mike’s Birthday!
Despite the odds, Mike and Chloe got to celebrate Mike's birthday with friends!

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Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.


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The First Look at The First Book of Taylor
Lauren, a swinger, and Ben, who is polyamorous, set the stage by introducing themselves and sharing their frustrations with how the media often misrepresents their communities.

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Garments, Drama, and Oh Boy, the Truth Box!
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 4 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and share their personal updates before diving into THE key event, the “sh*t show” of the birthday celebration weekend.

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We are Not in Utah Anymore
Listen in as Lauren and Ben talk about episode 7 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, which all takes place in Sin City.


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Seeking Pleasure Can Get Out of Hand
Lauren and Ben discuss the complexities of episode two of the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Peach on the Beach and Cream Colored Jeans
In this spicy episode, Lauren and Ben discuss labiaplasty, why no one does paintings of balls, and whether rubbing oil on a Chippendale's chest will keep you out of (Mormon) heaven.

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Topless Tastings & The ‘Book of Rumors’ Season Send-Off
In this episode, Ben and Lauren recap The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives finale.


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Book of Broken Friendships
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss friendship, ENM, stress, conflict, and soda shops.

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How Do I MAKE My Partner Join the Lifestyle?
This is a very common question appearing on forums and social media. It cannot be answered, but a clear response is needed.

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Hottest Swingers Clubs: World Edition
Discover the most seductive swinger lifestyle clubs around the globe and the sexy secrets within.


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Unraveling the Psychology of the Swinging Lifestyle
Dr. Stephanie Sigler explores the psychological threads that make the swinging lifestyle not just a sexual choice but a nuanced interpersonal dynamic.

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Naturally Improve His Sexual Health & Wellness
How can men use sex toys to improve their sexual health and wellness?

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Embracing Nerves & Excitement Before a Same-Sex Play Session
Starting a new experience can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking, especially when it involves a same-sex play session.